to all d guys out thr...
well there are so many things i would like to ask u guys...
n yea gals if u want to knw anything pls do ask..
n i want all of u to share ur experiences so as we get to knw more abt d difference of opinions b/w we 2.
seriously wanna understand u guys better!!
questions :-
1. what is d frst thing u guys look fr wen u make friends(gals) and girlfrnd as in a realtionship?
2. well if u havta say sorry to ur frnd hw do u say it to a guy n hw dou say it to a gal?
3. if u really like sm1 n shes a close frnd of urs den hw wld u approach her?
yes guys... i knw this is tough bt i wanna peep into male psychology;-)
4. when u say ' i love u' hw will a gal get to knw dat u r serious or jes wanna go around?(as in fr u when do u think u r serious n wat is d diff. while expressing it)
5. if u hav never had a gf n nw u wanna hav one n choose one of ur close gal pals,wat wld u call it- love, need, cheating( ur n her feelings), a right decision which u wld like to tk its own course?
6. if ur best friend is a gal, wat is d pecentage of ur falling fr her?n wat acc. to u is her reaction to dat?
7.ohkkk.supose u knw dis gal bt u never met her..do u actually think it cld b love?
8. tell me 1 thing which u think ur girlfrnd doesnt knw n u really want to tell her n want her to reciprocate?(cld b a wild emotion)
9.wen u guys havta show concern, love hw do u express it both emotionally n physically, hw do u do it?is d case diff. wid a frnd(gal) n ur gf? n hw?
10.is it right dat u guys like to express ur love physically? coz i read it smwhr dats d best way guys express it, n gals generally dont understand their gud intentions..
(well here pls fr gals sake tell me wen do these intentions go wrong or r nt pure. )
i can go on n on n on ...
but i seriously want all u guys n pls evn ask ur frnds to take this up..n post me or mail me d answers;-)
n atleast here i expect no lies..
posted by milo @ 5:30 PM
30 Comments:
Hey, I'd love to answer these questions. Good that atleast someone wants to hear the males as well :p
1. Physical Appearance
2. To a guy: I'm sorry! (Matter closed)
to a gal: See, I'm really sorry. Things were not meant to be this way. What happened was not meant to.....add more such blah blah blah
3. Very casually; I mean like if you know her well and u really like her, den where's the problem. Just go to her and talk your heart out.
4. First of all, 'I love you' is something that is said by the eyes and not the lips. A proper eye contact is all that I'll need to prove to her that I'm serious.
5. Need
6. Depends on how good a friend she is...and what type of friendship it is... as fr as the % is concerned, i'd put it at 25%. Reaction: Normal yaar... love happens itself. You don't have any control over it.
7. hmmm...possibly. Depends on how well you know her.
8. tht she's not very understnading and mature, and it's because of her that my life's so happy and good.
9. Emotionally: A look into the eyes.
Physically: A hug
Remove the physical part fr the friend
10. Not really...It's like that that's one way of expressing concern. More so of showing care and protection.
andy- 1. applaud
2.do u guys actually feel sorry?
3.agree.
4.so if u dnt love a gal den u wldnt make an eye contact n still say i love u. is dat possible in ur or any1 elses case?
5.ehmm..
6.ohk....
7.ohk.
8.dint get u here..shes nt understandin???
9.u really mean it..wl a hug satisfy u?
10. i think dat ws diplomatic.
bt cld b very true in ur case...jes want to request dat pls share ur true emotions.if u did thanku soo much.
well milo here r the answers.
1.Looks
2.I am sorry to both
3.In an everyday manner.Cause if she is my gud frnd she'll understand my feelings even if i fail to express properly.
4.i guess when im serious ill stammer :) sounds funny but i know in my case...though it has not come yet...ill not be able to say it without stammer even though i am good orator.
5.a right decision which I would like to take its own course
6.50%. I guess she would prefer only being friend.
7.I'll brk it up in %age
65%-attraction or infatuation
35%-love
8.That i can cry like a small child but that doesnt mean im weak
9. Concern emotionally --listen patiently
Physically - hold hands
With guys , i guess guys dont need physical support its more emotional support tht they need. For me , someone who could listen to my nonsense n still sympathise with me.
10.Yes but i dont know where ull draw the line.Now i guess for girl physical touch i.e. holding hands n a hug is fine but when it comes to a kiss thts when the prob starts.But ill go to kissin only if im seriously in love with the girl.
dhruv- thnku
1.gr8
2.ok.
3.kkk.
4.so if u dnt love a gal den u wldnt make an eye contact n still say i love u. is dat possible in ur or any1 elses case?
5.this is wat u felt..
6.n y do u think so?
7.hmm
8.ws thr on my list(mind list):-)
9.ok. suppose u hav all d emotional support n no physical thing gng on, jes holding hands..wat wld b ur expectations?
10.hw far do u guys want to go wid all d purest of intentions,both minimum n maximium pnts whr u wld actually b satisfied wid ur realationship?
well :
4. no i would not be able to make eye contact if i dont love her truly. but ya maybe ill say "I love You".
5. ths wht i feel
6. no clue to the why? never been tht close enough to a girl..just observation n lot of films i guess :)(observations mainly )
9.Pamper me n kiss on my forehead like a small child..tht should do
(frm girl tht is )
10.Kiss is max for me....cause sex before marriage often leads to draggin a relation even if u wanna get out of it...n sometimes u realise tht u want to get out...n for me marriage becomes sacred... a bit filmy it may seem but its true in my case
Hey Milo. You do not know me but Dhruv told me to do this quiz. So here goes.
1. Her face, not how goodlooking she is but to see how wise she can become.
2. I will say the same thing without any discrimination. But what I will say depends on the occasion
3. Simple, I shall not approach her. My conscience keeps my passion in strict bondage and it strictly says that a friend is a friend.
4. If I ever say I love you, it would not be a matter of jest.
5. God forbid such thing from happenning to me.
6. 0% And truthfully, my best friend is a girl. And if I ever fall for her, she will hit me hard on my head to see if she can knock some sense in me. IT it does not she will keep hitting me until I come to my senses. Thank her for that.
7. No, I would say it is just a crush.
8. I would like her to know that she kisses really bad but so far have not been able to tell her that.
9 A Kiss and a Hug is the best policy here.
10. We do express our love physically. If you see deep into our eyes, you can see love ozzing out of it too.
I hope my answer helps.
johney- welcome
1.ehm..
2.ok
3.so u think u cannot fall in love wid ur frnd?
4.if u will ever havta pretend fr fun sake ..hw will u convince her?
5.lol
6.lets say... wat if she falls fr u?den wat?
7.hmm
8.bt u wld still love her..rite?
9. ok
10.hw far do u guys want to go wid all d purest of intentions,both minimum n maximium pnts whr u wld actually b satisfied wid ur relationship?
Thank you.
1. You do not believe me, do you?
2. Yes, I do not discriminate between a boy and a girl when I am the one who is sorry.
3. I do not think. I will not. I am an ordinary person and ordinary persons do not fall in love with their friends.
4. I will never pretend even for fun's sake. I am not that kind of person. I would rather amputate a limb then do such thing.
5. Yes, truly, God forbid such things from happening.
6. Well, if she falls for me, I would try to knock some sense in her. But if she does not see sense, I have to compromise and be content with it and try to do the unthinkable, which I know I would fail miserably.
7. You still do not believe me, do you? It's ok, many people do not believe me either.
8. Yes, I would still love her.
9. Only ok?
10. I will go as much as she wants to go. But a kiss and a hug is necessary. I can guess how serious our relation is from a kiss and a hug.
I hope this helps.
interesting questions .... it wud be interestng to hear the same answers frm u ....
1. Shes beautiful & pretty or not .. she shud be attractive
2. TO a guy :: well i havent come across such situations .. i m not much in to fights .. but newayz .. it depends on the situtation .... if its my fault .. i wud say sorry ..& if its not mine .. then nothin
to a girl :: i m not good at tht art of puttin things in a lucerative way ... so its gonna br difficult .. all i ll manage to say is :: hey i m sorry .. it wasnt intentional .. and then quite .. just listen .. wht else can i do ...
3. it wud be difficult. But since i knw her well i wud knw how wud she react .. but it wud be better to say .. cause since shes understands me well .. she will understand me .... but surely it wont come in btw our friendship :)
4. The conviction in my eyes will say tht. EYES do speak a lot .. and they dont knw how to lie ... so guys master the EYE 2 EYE game .
5. shes the best of my pals .. and thus she understands me the most & i understand her equally well .. to whts the prob in being together .... so its either love Or possibly a right dicision .
6. 100 % . BUt its a different kind of falling. SEE u love people but its not always tht u ge them .... and they always remain in ur heart .. and tthts not wrong i guess ... and her reaction wud be .. ::" Anuj stop kiddin yaar " .. but then her eyes will tell me the truth ;)
7. its depends on time. I have heard a lot of people fallin in love with guys & gals they hav been chatting with since last 1 year or so . SO it depends .. but there sure is somethin .... thers an attachment .. people become a part of ur life
8. i dont hav one
9. its differnt in case of boys & girlz obviously. In case of boys we hardly express our emotions to one another .... rarely a HUG .. and thts it ....
in case of gurls the best cud be .. run ur fingers into her hair ..or possibly a KISS ....
10 . yes it is right. but its not like tht its the most imp stuff .... for some its the sole purpose .. but for some its not. SO dpends on guy to guy .
PHEW .... it was hard .. so tell me was i true ??
hi milo..anuj gave me this link..
was interestin..never answere such q's
1. Well, i never approached a girl out of 'me'...but physical feauters wil be the first thing my eyes can catch
2. To a guy...i wud say " I am sorry " twice....
To a girl..."ur company makes me happy, n i never want this happiness to drop.."
3. I wil still approach her as a frend...coz the magic words can never jump out of my mouth...
4. Will be definitely uneasy(can be nauseating), emotional n my eyes reflects my love to her....
5. A right decision which I wud like to take its own course...
6. If she is my best friend...its definitely gonna be somethin diff...
100% 'love for my friendship'.....she is still my best frend
7. I know a girl but i never met her...less possibility of being in love...
8. She cannot measure my depth of friendship or love to her..
and and and...also that girls r verry talkative..
9. Emotionally , i wil never keep my eyes off her eyes...
Physically.....hold her hands n go for a stroll...
10. Guys generally tend to move that way...
but expressing love physically without proper understanding wil never add meaning to the depth of love....
all we need is..being happy wid each other...its more sweet..
here are the answers
1.tits and ass
2.I never say sorry to a guy and if i have an some kind of interest(hope u understand the interest)in that gal then i do communicate it candidly
3.i never make friends with a girl unless i am attacted towards her and then the approach wud be to make friends first and then just be clear and explicit enough to speak ur heart out.
4.it ll be better if this is for the
gals. but of vat i know the gals ascertain the degree of affection u have by seein in ur eyes( girls are so dumb .i havent been serious for a gal till now so dont know vat diff. comes in expressing it from the guy side.
5. relationship of convenienve for physical satisfactions as less homework would be required to take the girl to bed as shes already a good friend.
6.100% and according to me if a girl
is ur friend she definately has a interest in u.
7.nops u have gotta see her before actually being in love(i told u tits and ass are important)
8.i want her to be more understanding of my feeling and be more mature and practical
9. emotionally--- looking into the eyes and holding her hand
physically--- by a hug and then by a small kiss on the lips.
10.yes it is but u have to decide ur limits according to the girls choice.I dont have any limits but dont do those things the girl doent want me to do.
here are the answers
1.tits and ass
2.I never say sorry to a guy and if i have an some kind of interest(hope u understand the interest)in that gal then i do communicate it candidly
3.i never make friends with a girl unless i am attacted towards her and then the approach wud be to make friends first and then just be clear and explicit enough to speak ur heart out.
4.it ll be better if this is for the
gals. but of vat i know the gals ascertain the degree of affection u have by seein in ur eyes( girls are so dumb .i havent been serious for a gal till now so dont know vat diff. comes in expressing it from the guy side.
5. relationship of convenienve for physical satisfactions as less homework would be required to take the girl to bed as shes already a good friend.
6.100% and according to me if a girl
is ur friend she definately has a interest in u.
7.nops u have gotta see her before actually being in love(i told u tits and ass are important)
8.i want her to be more understanding of my feeling and be more mature and practical
9. emotionally--- looking into the eyes and holding her hand
physically--- by a hug and then by a small kiss on the lips.
10.yes it is but u have to decide ur limits according to the girls choice.I dont have any limits but dont do those things the girl doent want me to do.
gud tht people r being true here .. then who the hell said tht GUYS LIE .... see how truly they hav answered ur questions milo [ though my case is yet to be decided by u ;) ]
gud tht people r being true here .. then who the hell said tht GUYS LIE .... see how truly they hav answered ur questions milo [ though my case is yet to be decided by u ;) ]
@milo:
sorry...sorry
i meant that she IS very understanding and mature....that was a typo.
and BTW, i was very very true in telling whatever I did.
johney
3.sounds strange to me..bt dats wat u feel..ok
6.dat means u cld compromise wid ur best frnd.
10.wonder hw do u measure it;-)
anuj
1.ok
2. ok
3. hmm
4.most of u think its an eye game.
5.ohhk
6.it has to b different
7.ok
8.think upon it.wat cld it b?
9.ohk
10.nice..bt tell me hw can one make out dat this is d sole purpose?any differentiation?
inside me or ankit
1.ehm
2.ok
3.ok
4.it wld b interseting to knw...dat..hw do u convince gals evn wen u r nt in love, hw do u do it so dat they believe u do.?
5.woo.
6.ohkk.
7.hmm
8.hmm
9.ohk
10..so u will b happy wid d gals choice..wont ask fr more?rite?
a kiran-
1.ohk
2.ohk
3.u sure?
4.hmm
5.ok
6.so ur feelings can actually change fr her..
7.ohk
8.hehe..gals r talkative.nice.
9.hmmmm
10.so evn u wnt actually ask fr more..if u r happy.
Loverboy Anuj Panwar gave me the link, so here it goes...
1. As Jude Law says in Alfie,"Its all about FBB. Face. Boobs. And Bum. I'm just being honest." I am Law's fan.
2. guy- sorry buddy, I didn't mean it.
gal- sorry, but why r u so sensitive.
3. I like you and would like to take our relation to the next step.
4. Guys can turn into bumbling idiots when emotional, so don't read too much into it.
Though eyes give the hint, you won't miss the look if he is plain horny.
5. Choosing for the sake of having a gf's is called NEED.
6. Depends on how frigid or how sensuous she is.
7. This is called irrational fantasy. Personally I don't fantasize irrationally.
8. u're not my gf.
9. its more physical and less platonic with a gf.
10. yes, its true. Even if its not pure, true gf shouldn't have a prob with that. Physical thing shouldn't be painted as a forbidden fruit. And intentions can go wrong whenever the guy desires them to go wrong. gf will know when they go wrong. I hope the gf enough anatomy.
milo, this is really becoming very intereseting. I would love to hear from more guys so that i can know them better
most of the things seemed ok to u .. i expected some rebillion there .... but i guess so many points frm som many dudes .. just fed ur mind ....
neways abt the last one .. how to knw abt it .. i told ya last time as well ..
well his attitude towards a girl might tell her .. obviously if the girl does nothing .. and since he has to satisfy himself .. he wud approach .. and as i told in one of the stories .. he wud keep on forcing on it .... and lol again his eyes might tell u the truth .. all u need to do is master this game of READIN THY EYES ;)
pls check out my blog ya.. i've kept the answers there.. thought that would make a good post :D
i thought of sending u the answers, but alas, i didnt have ur mail id :p
Someone told me abt ur thread
1. Beauty and Frequency
2. Guy-> Sorry Boss
Gal-> It was my mistake..
3. Hope everything works out on its own. I have done this mistake already
4. Never say I love you. Only when u r damn serious. I like for the rest of the time
5. Dont know
6. Falling. 0%
7. Never
8. Cant understand
9. Emotionally both the times
10. Expressing love physically is concensual
point 3. I Like U for rest of the time
Hey,
3. Yes, it is true. Ordinary persons are ordinary meant for ordinary love. Not extraordinary one.
6. Yes, when I have no escape, that is when we two are the only 2 person stuck in a lonely island forever.
10. It is difficult to measure but with practice we know. Like how hard she hugs. And how hard she kisses. And ofcourse how fast her breath is and other stuffs. Sometimes it becomes too complex that one forgets to enjoy in the process.
sorry for being late, but i feel i MUST answer these questions:-
1. Intimacy!Like if i have to choose btwn two girls, then i'll prefer the one with whom i can get more intimate
2.if i'm really sorry, i really look sorry.so there is no difference(don't remember saying sorry to a girl :))
3. you know, casual touching, caressing, late night sms and doing teenyweeny things to please her
4. it's all in the eyes..if u really mean it, you can't hide it.
5. need, may be desperation, may be a compromise but definitely not the best situation
6. 50 %, i wont look at my best frnd with those feelings, as long as she doesn't reciprocate
7. yes maybe, it's a distant possiblity though!
8. sexual fantasies and some of my idiosyncratic 'unacceptable' feelings or ideas
9. ofcourse diff btwn guys n girls..gotta be more mushy-mushy with a girl, with a guy it's all about showing strong sentiments in words, but witha girl it is different-more fragile, tentative and some kind of irrational fear as well.
10. yes that's right..purely natural..pleasurable and makes sense.
that's a nice initiative, hope all the comments make the picture clear! take care
Herculean effort (so much consultancy widout fee, this is ur lucky day)
Answers :-
1. This may varry from individual to individual coz I think that just like love frndship also happens, wid some ppl just one conversation and u know that the person is a gud frnd material, I think it depends on a whole lot of things… intelligence wid intelligence leading the way, looks also do matter coz they help form an impression (rgt or wrong) abt the type of person, spclly if he/she is trustworthy or not.
2. Wid grls saying sorry is much easier, wid guys ur ego hurts
3 U avoid screwing up ur frndship
4. After adolescence I don’t think many of us would use the magic words widout giving it much thought, if we say that we mean that (at least u can be sure u r more than likeable)
5. Like I said avoid screwing up ur frndship
6. It would depend from person to person, u always have a certain somebody in ur mind and if ur frnd fits that bill then u may very well fall for her, again it’ll depend from person to person and the feelings she has 4 u
7. I know its infatuation
8. Saved, no grl frnd now
9. wid gfs u can afford to be more comforting physically, wid frnds u usually don’t do that
10. The physical aspect of any relation is always very endearing to a guy + guys are usually not very gud with words.
omg..
milo, dont tell me ur looking out for the right mix outta this test of urs..
~seems so~
well, one thing i noticed - there are flavors u still havent had answers like, at this place...
me waiting to see if there will be any of that abstract kind - believe there exists one :)
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